Suffering is a part of life.
Instead of trying to run from it, one must learn to embrace it.
There is no other way to succeed, no other path than that of the cross, of taking it up and soldering on.
What we should wish for, and train for and strive for is not a lighter burden but broader shoulders.
I understand that some suffering is beyond human endurance.
But that changes nothing, except to add to glory of triumph.